Bits Of Everything: Parenting tips for Young Children

I haven't posted in a while and mostly it's because we are so so busy. But I must admit that Libby and Drew, at age 4, are giving Darrell and I a run for our money lately. They are so sweet and loving one moment and then turn into wild monkeys the next. I get frustrated because I don't want them to be disrespectful to us and wish they would listen more. I'm hoping and praying it's just a phase. I have to remember that big culprits to their behavior are sleep, food, and especially SUGAR. We need to just give up treats like candy from favor bags or anything "junk" before bed/nap time because they just get wild. Thankfully I found this blog post today and need to re-read it every morning!

Bits Of Everything: Parenting tips for Young Children: "  Here are some helpful ideas I've found that have helped in parenting a strong willed child:
1-Provide the fundamentals. Children well fed and with enough sleep and the right foods cope best.
2- Daily, give children personalized time, attention and affection
3-Avoid name calling and labeling kids, "Hyper", "Trouble maker" or "problem child". Labels don't help a child's self-esteem.
4-Maintain a predicable schedule. Warn children of changes in routine and let them know when they can expect things to end. (Let them know when they have 10 minutes, then 5 minutes left in an activity)
5-Make sure children get hands-on active play time. It helps them use their energy constructively. Avoid over-scheduling children, but give them an activity that's a good outlet for energy.
6-Model and encourage positive social skills, such as trading, sharing, inviting others to play, offering to help others, and asking for help.
7-Choose your battles wisely. Use clear directions and enforce age appropriate limits, with reasonable consequences. Avoid over-reacting, raising your voice, or offering false threats. Dealing with problems matter-of-factly can help your child gain control and trust in your parenting.